Thursday, December 01, 2005

Valuable Sociolinguistic Case Studies: More Shameless Self Promotion

Here is a report I did for a Sociolinguistics assignment.

Here are the reasons why you must read this report;
  1. You are extremely bored and you have absolutely nothing else to do
  2. You have interest in the situation of code switching in Brunei and is looking for free documents online written by intelligent and beautiful women doing ESL degrees
  3. Voyeurism
  4. You have no life
  5. You are curious of my family situation
  6. You are an ex-employee of my father and is now considerably interested in his daughter
  7. It is 4am and you still can't get yourself to sleep
  8. You are a sociolinguist particularly interested in code switching, its relation to basic human institutions and the sociocultural implications it has on the individual
  9. You like to read anything about Brunei published online
  10. You read my last article entitled Green Sea and Brown Mud and would like to read more of my beautiful writings

This is the Abstract:

This is a brief report on a comparative study on members of my family. It looks at the distinct differences in speech patterns between me and my family members. There is a specific emphasis on when, where and why there is code switching between the languages Malay, English and Danau. In this report I also found the special use of third person pronouns which is an uncommon feature of speech in the Brunei Malay community, a unique way of intonation, and differences of accents in speech.

It might just resonate with your own family situations. Interested readers can download the .pdf document by clicking here.

Births and Days


Fortified chocolate drink!

It has begun.
Days of hyper idleness and extreme unproductivity.

Tuesday, November 29, 2005

Treasures from the Pearly Heavens


THAT is a an extremely beautiful handmade treasure chest.
My enormously talented other half surprised me with this gift this afternoon.


This is an extremely blurry picture of the elegantly done engraving of my name which was also manually carved with the help of a knife and hammer.

If you have magic eyes, you can also make out the very beautiful antique lock set.


This is the amazing period piece handle fixed on the side. Bought at an antiquarian. It is supposed to be a door knob apparently, but now has been modified to suit treasure-chest-making purposes.

I hate the lighting.

The chest is gorgeous.

Sexuality is empowering

[L1] Malay: Bida jua eh laki-laki yang hosting Miss World Vote Me atu eh. Bida banar-banar!

[L2] English: That man hosting the Miss World Vote Me program looks absolutely horrendous. Seriously.

[L3] Danau: Andi munchoi agak oo miyanai hosting Miss World ino. Matai ko.

Nasty. Yuck.

Thurber, I want to write like you

One afternoon a big wolf waited in a dark forest for a little girl to come along carrying a basket of food to her grandmother. Finally a little girl did come along and she was carrying a basket of food. "Are you carrying that basket to your grandmother?", asked the wolf. The little girl said yes, she was. So the wolf asked her where her grandmother lived and the little girl told him and he disappeared into the wood.

When the little girl opened the door of her grandmother's house she saw that there was somebody in bed with a nightcap and a nightgown on. She had approached no nearer than twenty-five feet from the bed when she saw that it was not her grandmother but the wolf, for even in a nightcap a wolf does not look anymore like your grandmother than the Metro-Goldwyn lion looks like Calvin Coolidge. So the little girl took an automatic out of her basket and shot the wolf dead.

Moral: It is not so easy to fool little girls nowadays as it used to be.

Monday, November 28, 2005

If You Hate Me



These people are to blame.
They are also responsible for three more of my kind.

Sunday, November 27, 2005

Plato and Prada meets there

Oh how nice! Almost Girl has tagged me.

Thousands of hits and new readers later Black Friday Blogging is now officially over! Except that it isn’t! The dialogue continues! New Fashion Blog Verbal Croquis gets in on the action with a discussion of fashion’s reflection of our political climate and new trends in buying. And Satire is Dead who is sad to be late to the party but wants to join in with snide remarks and some depressing insights is here to take advantage of the possible traffic it will generate! Whatever the motivation I am still glad to have the posts up! Maurina also late to the game has a post as well!

Read full article here

Saturday, November 26, 2005

Black Friday Blogging

Agh. I missed the Black Friday Blogging!

I am perfectly aware that I am not American, nor am I participating in the biggest shopping day in America, much to my disappointment. However, my participation is based on the sole fact that I am a consumer, I very much support capitalism and that fashion is important to me.

Fashion to me, lies in the classic. It is enhancing inner beauty that exist in all human beings no matter what dress size, skin colour, or height. It is embracing femininity of all women and yet it should produce results which says how unique and special every individual is. True fashion to me lies in the subtle and the implied, instead of the blatant and obvious. It should not obscure the identity of the individual. Fashion is supposed to be timeless because beauty is timeless.

Fashion is important to me not in the sense that I just absolutely must observe every single hype that comes along. No. Fashion inspire but does not neccesarily dictate what I feel and how I portray myself to the world. Indeed this blog is fashioned simply. I want to show that my views are simple and non-complicated and yet it has all the neccesary requirements needed to function properly with that little extra accesorization to make it unique.

Smile and remember. Work from within, where the beauty is. That is true fashion.

Stereotyping in Brunei schools?

Warning: This is a LONG post that might contain racist sentiments. Please read with the professional objectivity and interest of an academia. These are real life experiences.

The answer is YES, there are a lot of stereotyping occuring everyday in Brunei schools, whether you are talking about stereotyping between teacher and students, students and teachers or student with students.

Now for those readers who would want to know what stereotyping exactly means, it is basically "an exaggerated belief associated with a category". (Allport 1954)

So, anyway, there are obviously negative stereotypes (Malays are never on time) and positive stereotypes (Malays are polite). However to clarify things better, we must understand that there are three main aspects of stereotyping which are:

1. Categorisation using identifiable characters such as ethnicity (like what I did above), sex or speech
2. Generalisation - attributes of individuals applied to others of the stereotyped group. For example, you find out that Girl A is "smart", and so you assume everyone like her is also smart.
3. The set of attributes are assigned to individual members of the group - Say you meet Girl A's cousins, Girl C and Boy D, you assume that they are all smart too because they are both members of Girl A's family.

Everyone has seen this happen. I am a living example. My father was a Math teacher in my school once upon a time and apparently he was a good one. My sisters who also went to that school were both great in Maths. When it was my turn, my Math teachers clucked their tongues, they shook their heads, and cried in disbelief because I couldn't do a simple algebra equation. They said, anak chigu Hamid saja, inda pandai Maths!1

They expected me to do well. They assigned a stereotype on me that I couldn't fulfill and that made me an outcast. Now, I was lucky. I was assigned a positive stereotype. For some others, the stereotypes assigned were not so rosy in appearance. I remember a classmate who was quite on the rebellious side (this is actually an understatement). One time, he yelled at a parent of a fellow student swear words at the top of his lungs. The reaction? That parent said "sah tah kau atu IBAN".2

If that shocked you, the reason for the argument in the first place will shock you. He was accused for stealing a pencil which was actually given to him as a present by the boy whose father had come to school. It was an automatic pencil, that lights up whenever you write something. So the teacher noticed him proudly using the pencil which was given to him and she remembered that it belongs to the other boy. She immediately thought that he stole the pencil despite him saying that he didn't. The other boy's father was called to school (teachers in the olden days like drama) and he were informed of the "theft". The frustrated accused boy eventually reached his limits and started swearing at the father and you know how it ended.

This boy was stereotyped because of his ethnicity. It didn't matter that he didn't really commit the crime. The teacher saw that pencil and him being of an ethnic minority associated with alcoholism and headhunting, was assumed to have stolen that pencil. The other boy was not consulted. He was a 'victim'. This is negative stereotyping. Racism.

Hewstone and Giles (1997) warns "we must be careful given that some minority groups come to develop a negative autostereotype in line with the heterostereotype of a dominant outgroup". For example, because of that incident and the fact that he is always suspected of that crime that classmate of mine will grow up being conscious of his ethnicity and the stereotypes associated with them, and actually conform to them. He begins to believe that the stereotypes are true.

Is stereotyping justified you ask? Sure if it is positive. If it is negative, throw it down the rubbish bin.

Unfortunately stereotypes are difficult to change. They have extensive social support. Hewstone and Giles (1997) states that "if society substantiates people's views that certain minorities are second class, then negative stereotypes will become entrenched". For example, the Ulu3 people and poor education, menial jobs. Furthermore, eventhough we know a lot of people from the Ulu (like the Ibans) do not neccesarilly live in a Rumah Panjang4, or do they go on mass headhunting trips in Kijangs5, the prejudice still persists at the back of our minds. Eventhough we know that a lot of Kedayans are highly educated people, we still have prejudice against people who drop their [r] pronunciation.6

Negative group images cannot be erased completely unfortunately. there are a lot of theoretical measures taken to combat this problem. Pettigrew (1981) suggest that positive stereotypes be increased by publicising the positive subgroups to show that the negative stereotype are not a homogeneous collective. But the answer is within yourself. Stereotyping is a human act, it is however inevitable. But so is compassion and understanding. Go for the positive. Not the negative.

As an ending note to this mighty long post, here is a question by Fishman;

"Why are we so often misinformed about groups, and about which sorts of groups, or concerning which aspects of groups, are we misinformed? Why is it so difficult to combat the misinformation with information?

1= Literal translation "you are supposed to be able to do Maths well, you are the daughter of Mr Hamid"
2= Very racist statement. Literal translation "No wonder you are an Iban." Iban is an ethnic minority which is always unfairly overgeneralised in negative stereotypes.
3= Ulu is the outskirts of a district. Rural areas.
4= A longhouse for an Iban extended family. Click this link to see a picture. For English readers, this is a more appropriate link for you.
5= There was an old rumor in Brunei that headhunting was making a comeback in the 90s. The rumor was oversensationalised over time, and it said that the headhunters were identified as driving a Toyota Kijang.
6= A distinct feature of the Kedayan speech.

Friday, November 25, 2005

This is not a fashion blog.


I just need to take my mind away from the turkey gravy lip balm.



Gasp. It is the best tasting pocket sized turkey wax ever.